Quotes from Dale Carnegie's "How To Win Friends and Influence People" Chapter I

"I learned thirty years ago that it is foolish to scold. I have enough trouble overcoming my own limitations without fretting over the fact that God has not seen fit to distribute evenly the gift of intelligence.” - John Wannamaker

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.

God Himself does not propose to judge mankind until the end of days.  Why should you and I?